Etiquette - Elisa Carbo : International Escort & Podcaster

The Dating Guide

(to see a professional girlfriend – me, in particular)

We haven’t met yet? Then this is for you.

Mein lieber Sherlock!

Ist es nicht unfassbar aufregend zu wissen, dass zwischen dir und diesem neuen, noch völlig unbekannten Abenteuer – dem ersten Moment, in dem sich unsere Blicke wirklich treffen – nur noch ein zaghaftes „Hallo“ steht?

Und wenn du jetzt schon deinen Herzschlag gegen deinen Brustkorb pochen spürst, lass mich dir zumindest einen großen Teil dieser Last abnehmen.

Schließlich sind wir beide aus demselben Grund hier. Wir wollen etwas erleben, das sich völlig anders anfühlt als all das Vorhersehbare, das uns tagtäglich begegnet.

Es soll aufregend sein. Außergewöhnlich. Lustvoll. Vielleicht ein kleines bisschen verrückt.

Und trotzdem soll es klaren Regeln folgen. Sicher sein. Diskret. Und niemals völlig unkontrollierbar werden.

„Das ist doch zwecklos“, sagte Alice. „Dem Unmöglichen kann man doch keinen Glauben schenken.“

Doch was, wenn ich dir sage, dass all das nur unmöglich scheint?

Dass Menschen diese besondere Form der Begegnung schon seit Tausenden von Jahren suchen – fernab vom Gewöhnlichen, manchmal im Verborgenen und doch beinahe so alt wie unsere Vorstellung von Begehren selbst?

Und dass du weder wissen musst, wie dieses Wunderland funktioniert, noch seine Regeln kennen musst, bevor du es betrittst?

Dafür hast du schließlich mich.

Also, lieber Sherlock …

Willkommen in meinem Wunderland

Steigen wir die Stufen dieses Kaninchenbaus hinab, landen wir in einer wundersamen Welt, die einzig dafür geschaffen wurde, sie zu erfahren.

An diesem Ort geht es nicht darum, etwas beweisen zu müssen, etwas darstellen zu müssen.

Es geht nur darum, uns wohl zu fühlen und zu entdecken, was uns wirklich Lust und Freude bereitet. Hier gibt es nichts, was wir müssen, doch enorm viel, was wir entdecken dürfen…

Doch jedes Paradies braucht seine Regeln, um fortexistieren zu können. So auch dieses:

What happens in wonderland, stays in wonderland.
Was wir zusammen erleben oder einander anvertrauen, bleibt stets unter uns. Daher sind auch keine Bild- und Tonaufnahmen gestattet.
Consent is sexy
Wenn du dir nicht sicher bist, ob es okay ist, etwas Bestimmtes zu tun - frag mich einfach. Gleiches mache ich für dich.
Alles kann, nichts muss:

Reaching out to me

Do you offer video calls/virtual dates?

My consideration includes my time, presence and discretion for our arranged adventure. Whatever we choose to do with each other will be consensual, based on free will and has therefore no influence on the overall charge.

Before reaching out to me for the first time, please read my dating guide.

Deposit: Necessary to reserve my time for you. 450€ for any booking up to 6 hours in my area, 33-50% of the overall donation for bookings longer than 6 hours or dates requiring travel – plus eventual travel and hotel expenses
Payment: Digital options are bank transfer, Paypal, crypto (BTC/ETH) or gift cards. Upon meeting I prefer cash in an unsealed envelope, book or similarly discreet couvert at the beginning of our encounter. I only accept Euro (€) and GBP (£).
Location: Spending time with me in private requires a hotel room. If you’d prefer me to arrange a room for us, I am happy to do so, with the cost for it sent to me alongside the deposit.
Dates requiring Travel: Due to my deep love for travel, I don’t charge any travel fees. I only require my travel expenses to be covered. My minimum booking times vary, depending on exact location and trip details: Germany 4-6 hours, Europe 4-12 hours, International from 48 hours. Visiting the US is only possible by private flight arrangement.
Overnight Bookings: Must include at least 7 hours of uninterrupted beauty sleep. For stays of multiple nights, a separate room or ensuite to which I can occasionally retreat is always deeply appreciated.
Cancelling or Postponing: If the date in cancelled up to 48 hours in advance (7 days for bookings of 24 hours or more), I will keep the deposit and it can be applied to a future date within the 6 months. When cancelled with shorter notice I’ll keep the deposit as a gratefully received compensation – individually decided for every situation. In the rare case that I need to cancel our date, I’ll transfer the full amount back to you. Gift card and wish list payments can generally not be refunded.

Are you kinky?

Travelling Inside Europe

Due to my deep love for travel, I don’t charge any travel fees. I only require my travel expenses to be covered. My minimum booking times vary, depending on exact location and trip details:

Germany 4-6 hours • Europe 4-12 hours • International from 48 hours.

Visiting the US is only possible by private flight arrangement.

possible from 4h

Travelling outside Europe

possible from 48 hours

Do you have a list of services?

Someone joining us

Mir zu schreiben ist erstmal unverbindlich – fest vereinbart ist es ab der Anzahlun

I prefer you asking me out 2-6 weeks in advance. I’m usually not able to accommodate same-day requests.

Deposit secures the day for you.

Über was sie sich Gedanken machen:

Sieht sie wirklich aus wie auf den Bildern? Was hilft – Videocall?

Es hilft, wenn du mir sagst, dass das hier das erste mal ist, bei dem du paydatest.

FAQ: Wer darf dich buchen?

before the date

I got you.

Meeting me

If we choose to only spend time in the room: Have some fresh water and maybe snacks & lemonade there.

Showering freshly – especially on the intimate parts. Maybe shaving?

After the date

I got you.

Post Date

I value clarity and determination. A focused, respectful approach shows me that you know what you want – and that my time is well invested.

Your first message should include

a friendly greeting,
a brief description of yourself (age, nationality, personal likes & dislikes),
as well as the desired framework of our meeting (desired day, time, duration, location – preferably with several options to choose from).

If you have any questions that are relevant to our date, please also include them directly. I will reply to you as to whether – and to what extent – your request is of interest to me.

Your deposit will then be paid (by instant bank transfer, PayPal or – in exceptional cases – Bitcoin or voucher). Only then is the time firmly reserved in my calendar.

Once I have received your confirmation, I will be happy to take the time to work out the details of our meeting with you. If you would like to get a more personal impression in advance, please contact me for a virtual meeting – on a paid basis.

Due the Date

A wonderful experience together begins with mutual respect – and a smooth process.
If your arrival is delayed or something is postponed, we will of course inform each other as early as possible. Punctuality is a sign of mutual respect.

During our meeting, the more relaxed, respectful and open-hearted we are with each other, the more pleasant it will be for both of us. There is no such thing as too much shared laughter or moments of profundity and sincerity in my world. And authenticity is rewarded.

At the beginning of our meeting, please give me the fee in a discreet envelope – e.g. in an envelope, a book or a greeting card. This will take care of everything and we can devote our time together without any worries.

Deposit: 450€ for any booking up to 6 hours in my area, 50% for bookings longer than 6 hours or 1h+ travel time – plus eventual travel and hotel expenses
Online Payment: bank transfer, Paypal or anonymous options like crypto (BTC/ETH). I only accept Euro (€) and GBP (£).

A few lines about yourself when you get in touch help build trust and rapport. Please tell me a bit (more) about yourself – age, appearance, interests, and preferences.
If the date is canceled up to 7 days in advance, I will transfer the deposit back to you. If you cancel less than 7 days, I will keep the deposit and it can be applied to a future date within the next three months. I always keep Gift Cards.

Our Rendezvous

Location: Our date should take place in a 4–5* hotel. If you don’t have time to arrange it yourself or would prefer to leave the choice to me, I’ll be happy to take care of the booking.
Please let me know in good time about any changes regarding our meeting point or the time, should you be delayed.
Would you like to bring me a little something to our date? It’s by no means expected, but always a lovely gesture. You might find some inspiration on this list 🙂
A well-groomed and respectful appearance is essential – for both of us.

Request and Booking

I’m passionate about traveling and love getting shown your favorite places – or wherever you picked to stay for longer on this beautiful planet. My travel costs for Europe only include transportation costs and my obligatory coffee on the travel day to make me arrive in your arms with a smile. Meeting you somewhere in Europe is preferred over night while often also possible for a daytime escape of 4h/6h. In case of our adventure ending later than I’d be able to make the trip back I’d ask you take care of my lodging costs or leave me the room for the night.

While Europe is where my heart is home, I have a lot pleasure traveling abroad those borders. In this case please consider that my travel costs often include additional charges to compensate for my travel time. Upon requesting me to travel to/with you I’ll mention the overall amount including all travel and eventual lodging costs as soon as having all necessary informations about our planned escape – so there are no surprises to worry about.

How to arrange meeting me

To arrange to see me please fill out my dating form or write a mail to me including all vital details about you, the frame of our date (location & possible timeframes) and the kind of experience you’re hoping for. I will gladly keep the said period free for us, as soon as the deposit reached my account, which is a third (33.3%) or the overall donation when meeting me in my area with max. one night together or half (50%) of the overall donation incl. travel costs when traveling to you or meeting for multiple nights – transferrable via bank transfer or with privacy protecting options like crypto (BTC, ETH).

I appreciate you handing over the remaining consideration discreetly in an unsealed envelope or similar cover in the first 15 minutes of our encounter. Optionally

The remaining consideration is the very best handed over in cash inside of an unsealed envelope or similar in the first 15 mins of our encounter.

Can I meet you fully anonymously?

provided that a deposit is made ideally instantly or up to 24h after your request.

If I agree to your date request, I will gladly keep the said period free, provided that a deposit is made afterwards. I ask you to hand over the remaining fee in a discreet envelope (envelope, book, etc.) at the beginning of our meeting or to transfer it with Real-time bank transfer/Bitcoin/etc.

Spending time with me in private is only possible in hotels or private SPA’s. While I’m not offering use of my pied-à-terre, I’m happy to host

in a hotel room or suite of your choice for an additional 200€ + the daily actual costs of the accomodation added to the deposit.

greeting you with a cold bottle of champagne or good wine (for sure non-alcoholic drinks are possible as well).

making use of my pied-à-terre for incalls is something I generally don’t offer, I’m happy to host in hotel room or suite of your

I do not offer use of my pied-à-terre for incalls,

While I do not offer use of my pied-à-terre for incalls, I am more than happy to host our date in a five-star hotel for an additional 1000, with all accommodations taken care of by yours truly.

Spending time with me in private requires a hotel room

Travel Costs, Deposits, Payment Ways, Date Planning

Me planning the date.

To arrange to see me please fill out my dating form or write a mail to me including all vital details about you, the frame of our date (location & possible timeframes) and the kind of experience you’re hoping for. I will gladly keep the said period free for us, as soon as the deposit reached my account – that’s a third of the full donation for dates in my area and half of the full donation (incl. travel costs) when travelling to you, possible via bank transfer or with privacy protecting options like crypto (BTC, ETH). The remaining consideration is the very best handed over in cash inside of an unsealed envelope or similar in the first 15 mins of our encounter.